Ten years on, things have, mercifully, changed. While my sex education included dressing a banana with a condom, some organizations are now helping sex talk in the classroom to be geared towards consent culture, rather than merely “no means no.” But when it comes to pleasure, the conversation has remained traditional.
Although roughly 75% of women can not achieve orgasm through penetrative sex and that many men enjoy prostate stimulation, the media is still rife with how-to guides that are entirely focused on vaginal and penis penetration.